Is Ethical Non-Monogamy Just Cheating? Myths About Open Relationships

Is ethical non-monogamy just cheating? Jess and Lawrence challenge myths about open relationships, jealousy, boundaries and communication.

Is ethical non-monogamy just cheating with better PR? And if your partner satisfies you, why the hell would you want to fuck anyone else? These are just some of the assumptions people love throwing around about ethical non-monogamy (ENM), and Jess and Lawrence have heard plenty of them. In this episode of Swapping Secrets, we’re […]

Horny Horror Stories: When Sex Goes Horribly Wrong (Halloween Special)

Sex horror stories, swingers podcast, adult party stories, awkward threesomes, dating disasters, Halloween podcast special

Get your Halloween tickets 🎃 (Want both nights? Have 20% off!) Night 1 & Night 2 Bloody messes, bedroom injuries, terrible threesomes and possibly a haunted swingers club. Happy Halloween, you filthy animals! This week on Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are getting into their Horny Horror Stories, sharing personal disasters, reading your anonymous confessions […]

Two Truths & a Lie Gets Messy with Anna, Conny & Ilona

Anna, Connie and Ilona join Jess and Lawrence for Two Truths and a Lie, with wild dating stories, staff confessions and water gun chaos on Swapping Secrets.

Get your Halloween tickets 🎃 (Want both nights? Have 20% off!) Night 1: https://ap1.hubs.ly/H01rw9z0 Night 2: https://ap1.hubs.ly/H01rwc_0 Jess and Lawrence play Two Truths and a Lie with OSS staff Anna, Conny and Ilona. Everyone’s brought a few stories, someone’s lying, and there are water guns waiting for the wrong answer. Anna has some after-hours office […]

Sexiest Moments of the Year – Part 2 of Red Flags and Wild Stories

Part 2 of Swapping Secrets' sexiest moments of the year, with red flags, open relationships, consent, safer play and standout guest moments.

The Sexiest Moments of the Year aren’t done yet. Part 2 digs back into another year of Swapping Secrets with Jess, Lawrence and some familiar guests for the conversations, stories and complete derailments that were too good not to hear again. We’re talking dating red flags, open relationships, relationship stigma, consent, safer sex, boundaries, three-way […]

1 Year of Swapping Secrets: Our Best, Wildest & Funniest Moments (PART 1)

Swapping Secrets turns one. Jess and Lawrence revisit a year of hilarious, spicy and surprisingly educational moments about open relationships, consent, relationships and the lifestyle.

Swapping Secrets is officially one year old, and apparently the best way to celebrate is to drag some of our funniest, filthiest, smartest and most chaotic moments back into the light. Jess and Lawrence revisit the clips they still can’t forget, alongside some brilliant moments from the guests and community members who’ve joined them over […]

Behind the Fantasy of OnlyFans with Kim Cums

Adult creator Kim Cums joins Swapping Secrets to discuss OnlyFans, sex work, stigma, relationships and what really happens behind the camera.

In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Lawrence sits down with adult entertainer and content creator Kim Cums to find out what life behind OnlyFans and the adult entertainment industry actually looks like. Kim’s path into the industry wasn’t exactly conventional. After studying archaeology and environmental science, an online relationship, kink exploration and early webcam modelling […]

Reddit’s Wildest Bisexual Dilemmas (with By the Bi)

Reddit’s bisexual community has some complicated questions. Lawrence, Bradford and Angela from By the Bi unpack dating double standards, biphobia, identity, attraction and what happens when your sexuality stops fitting neatly into a box.

Reddit has questions about bisexuality… and some of them are MESSY. With Jess away on maternity leave, Lawrence is joined by returning guests Bradford and Angela from By the Bi to tackle Reddit’s wildest bisexual dilemmas. From women refusing to date bisexual men and the double standards surrounding bi relationships, to discovering same-sex attraction later […]

Body Hacks for Better Sex with Miranda Cheng

Miranda Cheng with Jess and Lawrence discussing pelvic health, nervous system regulation and body-based intimacy on Swapping Secrets

What if better intimacy had less to do with technique and more to do with understanding your body? In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are joined by Miranda Cheng, founder of We The Femme and a practitioner in pelvic care and holistic sexuality. Together, they explore how the pelvic floor, nervous system, […]

Movies & TV Shows That Were Queer Before Their Time

Was your favourite childhood show quietly teaching you about identity and queer relationships before you even knew what queer coding was? Jess, Lawrence and Gabe revisit the pop-culture moments that changed how they saw the world.

In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess, Lawrence and producer Gabe revisit the movies, television shows and characters that quietly shaped how they understood queerness, gender, relationships and acceptance. They discuss the difference between meaningful representation and tokenism, why some of the strongest queer characters are simply allowed to exist without their identity becoming the […]

Queer Relationships Beyond the Stereotypes w/ Daniel Cooley

Elite gay matchmaker Daniel Cooley joins Swapping Secrets to discuss queer relationships, dating apps, monogamy, communication, modern love, and the biggest LGBTQIA+ relationship myths.

For Pride Month, we’re diving into the realities of modern queer relationships with elite gay matchmaker and relationship expert Daniel Cooley. From dating app burnout and modern matchmaking to monogamy, non-monogamy, communication, and the biggest misconceptions people have about LGBTQIA+ relationships, this conversation goes far beyond the stereotypes. Daniel shares what thousands of conversations with […]