1 Year of Swapping Secrets: Our Best, Wildest & Funniest Moments (PART 1)

Swapping Secrets turns one. Jess and Lawrence revisit a year of hilarious, spicy and surprisingly educational moments about open relationships, consent, relationships and the lifestyle.

Swapping Secrets is officially one year old, and apparently the best way to celebrate is to drag some of our funniest, filthiest, smartest and most chaotic moments back into the light. Jess and Lawrence revisit the clips they still can’t forget, alongside some brilliant moments from the guests and community members who’ve joined them over […]

Behind the Fantasy of OnlyFans with Kim Cums

Adult creator Kim Cums joins Swapping Secrets to discuss OnlyFans, sex work, stigma, relationships and what really happens behind the camera.

In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Lawrence sits down with adult entertainer and content creator Kim Cums to find out what life behind OnlyFans and the adult entertainment industry actually looks like. Kim’s path into the industry wasn’t exactly conventional. After studying archaeology and environmental science, an online relationship, kink exploration and early webcam modelling […]

Reddit’s Wildest Bisexual Dilemmas (with By the Bi)

Reddit’s bisexual community has some complicated questions. Lawrence, Bradford and Angela from By the Bi unpack dating double standards, biphobia, identity, attraction and what happens when your sexuality stops fitting neatly into a box.

Reddit has questions about bisexuality… and some of them are MESSY. With Jess away on maternity leave, Lawrence is joined by returning guests Bradford and Angela from By the Bi to tackle Reddit’s wildest bisexual dilemmas. From women refusing to date bisexual men and the double standards surrounding bi relationships, to discovering same-sex attraction later […]

Body Hacks for Better Sex with Miranda Cheng

Miranda Cheng with Jess and Lawrence discussing pelvic health, nervous system regulation and body-based intimacy on Swapping Secrets

What if better intimacy had less to do with technique and more to do with understanding your body? In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are joined by Miranda Cheng, founder of We The Femme and a practitioner in pelvic care and holistic sexuality. Together, they explore how the pelvic floor, nervous system, […]

Movies & TV Shows That Were Queer Before Their Time

Was your favourite childhood show quietly teaching you about identity and queer relationships before you even knew what queer coding was? Jess, Lawrence and Gabe revisit the pop-culture moments that changed how they saw the world.

In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess, Lawrence and producer Gabe revisit the movies, television shows and characters that quietly shaped how they understood queerness, gender, relationships and acceptance. They discuss the difference between meaningful representation and tokenism, why some of the strongest queer characters are simply allowed to exist without their identity becoming the […]

Queer Relationships Beyond the Stereotypes w/ Daniel Cooley

Elite gay matchmaker Daniel Cooley joins Swapping Secrets to discuss queer relationships, dating apps, monogamy, communication, modern love, and the biggest LGBTQIA+ relationship myths.

For Pride Month, we’re diving into the realities of modern queer relationships with elite gay matchmaker and relationship expert Daniel Cooley. From dating app burnout and modern matchmaking to monogamy, non-monogamy, communication, and the biggest misconceptions people have about LGBTQIA+ relationships, this conversation goes far beyond the stereotypes. Daniel shares what thousands of conversations with […]

Why Your Sex Life Isn’t Working (And How To Fix It) with Alice Child

Sexologist Alice Child joins Swapping Secrets to unpack mismatched desire, low libido, emotional disconnection, communication breakdowns and practical ways couples can rebuild intimacy and strengthen their relationships.

In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence sit down with renowned sexologist and relationship counsellor Alice Child to answer one of the biggest questions facing modern couples: Why does intimacy break down, even in loving relationships? From mismatched libidos and emotional labour to communication challenges, parenting, stress, resentment and screen-time overload, Alice explains […]

Erotic Power, Shame & Kink w/ Eva Oh

Dominatrix and sex educator Eva Oh joins Swapping Secrets to unpack BDSM psychology, shame, power dynamics, erotic liberation, submission, and human desire.

In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence sit down with internationally recognised dominatrix, sex educator, and somatic practitioner Eva Oh for one of the deepest and most psychologically fascinating conversations the podcast has explored yet. From power dynamics and long-term psychological play to shame, erotic liberation, BDSM, submission, embodiment, and human desire — […]

Reddit’s Wildest Open Relationship Stories

We read Reddit’s wildest open relationship stories, from ENM dating struggles to swinger boundaries, polyamory drama and consent chaos.

Jess and Lawrence are diving into Reddit’s wildest open relationship stories — and things get messy fast. From ethical non-monogamy dating struggles and first-time anxiety to sex club boundaries, changing rules mid-play, safer sex debates and questionable couple behaviour, this episode unpacks the Reddit posts that made them laugh, cringe and ask: is this real […]