OUR SECRET SPOT DRESS CODE
WE ARE AN UPSCALE VENUE SO Dress to impress
DRESS CODE POLICY
A night at Our Secret Spot is a special event. Therefore, your attire should match the occasion.
We and other guests love seeing you dressed up and looking sexy.
Our standard is ‘Dress to Impress’. Most people can tell when someone has made an effort with their appearance; however, to avoid some common pitfalls of grey areas, here are the minimum expectations for dress standards
LADIES DRESS CODE
Dress to feel sexy and desirable whilst still being true to yourself. Think:
Dresses
Skirt and top combos
Slacks and Blouse
Suit
Camisole
Well-fitted denim
Footwear should highlight your outfit. Think:
Heels
Wedges
Flats
Boots
Dress sandals
If you feel like your heels aren’t going to be wearable all night, bring a pair of flats to store in the locker
Underneath can be just as important. Think:
- Lingerie
- Stocking & Suspenders
- Bra and knickers
- Robe
- Au Naturale
No-No’s
- T-shirts
- Tracksuit (top and bottoms)
- Hoodies
- Caps
- Shorts
- Joggers/trainers/running shoes
- Thongs/slides*
- Slippers (yes, a couple turned up in slippers once, so now we have to say it)
- Activewear
GENTS DRESS CODE
Dress to look dapper and handsome whilst still feeling comfortable. Think:
- Suit
- Collared Shirt
- Trousers/slacks
- Chinos
- Well-fitted denim
Footwear:
- Dress shoes
- Boots
- Dress sneakers
Underneath and dressing down:
As the night heats up, you may want to lose a few layers. Just make sure your dressed-down look still feels sexy and in keeping with the night.
- Yummy, well-fitted underwear, maybe avoid the worn-out kind that every guy seems to have
- Men’s lingerie
- An open or unbuttoned collared shirt with underwear
- A harness or fitted mesh top
- Au naturel
Feeling a little body conscious? An unbuttoned shirt with good underwear is a great look. It gives you some coverage while still looking sexy.
A baggy T-shirt or singlet over underwear can look more like bedtime than party time, so keep it fitted, comfortable and sexy.
No-No’s
- T-shirts
- Singlets
- Tracksuit (top and bottoms)
- Hoodies
- Caps
- Shorts
- Joggers/trainers/running shoes
- Thongs/slides (okay for the end of the night when leaving)
- Slippers (yes, a couple turned up in slippers once, so now we have to say it)
- Activewear
GENERAL
Themed Events Occasionally, we have themed events. Some themed events may call for items that appear on the no-no list or contradict the minimum standards. If your outfit or costume is in line with the theme, let’s party, baby!
We put outfit and costume ideas in themed events’ descriptions, so check those out for some inspo.
If your outfit or costume is too risqué to wear out in public, coming in regular attire and being able to change upon entry is not a problem.
Second Outfit
Some guests like to bring a second outfit to change into after the night. Often, this clothing is more comfortable than what they arrived in. Changing into this outfit when it comes to home time is fine.
GLASSES & SMART GLASSES
Your glasses are welcome. They’ll just need a quick check and a little OSS accessory.
We take privacy seriously. With wearable recording technology becoming more accessible, we’ve heard guests’ concerns and added a visual glasses check at reception.
Smart glasses and glasses with cameras or recording capability cannot be worn inside, even when switched off. Leave them at home or switched off in your locker, and bring an ordinary prescription pair if needed.
Last Thoughts
If you’re unsure about anything, please get in touch with us ahead of time. We will be more than happy to answer any questions you may have about your attire.
We also have some podcast episodes that discuss what to wear. (Link episode 12 & 82)
Stay sexy, and we’ll see you at the club.