The New Midlife Sexual Renaissance – Why Sex Gets Better With Age w/ Susan Bratton (BetterLover)
Midlife used to be framed as the beginning of the sexual slow-down. Less desire. Less energy. Less spark. But what if that story is completely wrong? In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are joined by globally renowned intimacy expert Susan Bratton to unpack what she calls The New Midlife Sexual Renaissance — […]
The Sexiest thing YOU can do is Set a Boundary
In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are joined by Bradford and Angela from the By The By Podcast to unpack the emotional mechanics of jealousy, envy, fear of missing out, and the boundaries that keep open relationships healthy, sexy, and sustainable. Together, they explore why jealousy often has more to do with […]
Naughty Christmas Special: Listener Gifts, Wild Stories and OSS Holiday Chaos
Naughty Christmas swinger stories are the unofficial love language of the holidays — and OSS has plenty to unwrap. In this extra-spicy Christmas special, Jess and Lawrence dive headfirst into naughty Christmas swinger stories sent in by the community, opening listener gifts, reading filthy confessions, and reliving the most outrageous festive moments of the year. […]
Pleasure Without Permission with Rosie Rees
Self-pleasure has quietly shifted from a whispered taboo to a full-blown cultural reclamation — and few people have championed that transformation more powerfully than Rosie Rees. In this episode, Jess and Lawrence dive deep into the world of empowered intimacy, slow pleasure, mindful masturbation, and the quiet revolution happening in bedrooms everywhere. Rosie opens up […]
Reading the Signals — When Consent Isn’t Clear-Cut
Consent is easy when it’s a bright, enthusiastic “yes.” But what about the murky moments — the mixed signals, the non-verbal cues, the awkward pauses, or the moments you only realise after the fact that something felt… off? In this episode, Lawrence, and our guest Prue, dive into the real-world grey areas of consent — […]
Swinging Parents: Tackling Stigma and Scheduling Sex
Jess and Lawrence pull back the curtain on one of the most real, raw challenges in the lifestyle: how to balance parenting with swinging, non-monogamy, and staying sexy. From babysitters to bedtime, stigma to scheduling — this episode is a candid look at the juggling act of raising toddlers while still embracing fun, intimacy, and […]
6 Health and Safety Secrets for Non-Monogamy
Get your 👉 Safer Sex Checklist Jess and Lawrence are diving into the practical side of love, lust, and lifestyle — how to stay safe, healthy, and confident in open and non-monogamous relationships. From STI checks to mental health, condoms to communication, this episode busts myths and flips stigma on its head with real talk […]
No Rules, Just Love: Redefining Relationships with Lucy Banks (Part 2)
No Rules, Just Love: Redefining Relationships with Lucy Banks (Part 2) Jess and Lawrence are back with Part 2 of the New Relationship Revolution, joined by special guest Lucy Banks — PR powerhouse, CEO of the Australian Adult Industry Choice Awards, and marketing lead for Sxhibition. This episode goes deeper into how people are rewriting […]
No Rules, Just Love: The New Relationship Revolution (Part 1)
Jess and Lawrence return with Part 1 of a two-part special exploring the new relationship revolution. In this episode, they dive into how younger generations are rethinking love, intimacy, and commitment — moving beyond traditional models and embracing non-traditional paths like swinging, polyamory, and relationship anarchy. From peer-reviewed studies to app data from Bumble, Feeld, […]
First-Time Stories, Sexy Starters and Club Newbie Tips
Welcome to the brand-new Swapping Secrets podcast — the revamped show from inside Our Secret Spot. Jess and Lawrence are back with cameras, lights, and plenty of cheeky stories to kick off the new era. In this episode, we dive into first time swingers club stories — the funny, the awkward, and the oh-so-sexy moments […]