In Part 2 of this deep-dive episode, Jess and Lawrence answer real questions from the OSS community about boundaries, consent, rule-breaking, and what really happens when things shift mid-play.
We unpack:
• What to do when another couple changes the rules during sex
• How to handle boundaries being crossed in non-monogamy
• Tips for anal and DP (double penetration) done safely
• The biggest regrets (if any) about joining the lifestyle
• Parenting while owning a sex club
• Managing jealousy, reputation and daycare drop-offs
• Working with your ex while building a lifestyle business
Plus, voice messages and video questions from our extended community — including familiar faces from the lifestyle podcast space.
This episode is raw, honest and unfiltered — but always rooted in consent, communication and curiosity.
If you’re exploring non-monogamy, swinging, open relationships, or just curious about how real people navigate sex-positive spaces — this one’s for you.
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