Why do we ignore red flags when we’re turned on? Jess & Lawrence unpack dating, sex, and lifestyle mistakes driven by desire.

Red Flags We Ignore Because We’re Horny

In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence unpack one of the most relatable (and chaotic) parts of modern relationships — red flags in dating and why we ignore them when attraction takes over.

We’ve all been there… The red flags are obvious, but the chemistry is too strong to walk away.

From cocky behaviour, poor communication, ignoring boundaries, and unsafe sex practices, to the difference between dating vs the lifestyle, this episode dives deep into the psychology of desire and decision-making.

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