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Swinging Parents: Tackling Stigma and Scheduling Sex

Jess and Lawrence pull back the curtain on one of the most real, raw challenges in the lifestyle: how to balance parenting with swinging, non-monogamy, and staying sexy.

From babysitters to bedtime, stigma to scheduling — this episode is a candid look at the juggling act of raising toddlers while still embracing fun, intimacy, and freedom. With real stories from parents in the community (and a few cheeky confessions of their own), they unpack how families make it work without letting love or lust take a back seat.

🔥 Inside this episode:

🍼 How parents in the lifestyle juggle childcare, sex lives, and relationship time.

⏰ Why scheduling and planning ahead is the secret weapon for sexy parents.

🫢 Dealing with stigma at daycare, the school gate, and in the wider community.

❤️ Why keeping connection alive as partners makes you better parents.

PLUS — in this week’s Just the Tip segment, Jess & Lawrence play a hilarious game of Parenting or Sex Toy? with items from their very own survival kit. Spoiler: not everything is as innocent as it looks…

Whether you’re a parent curious about the lifestyle or a listener who just loves real talk about sex, stigma, and balance — this episode proves that with creativity (and the right babysitter), you really can have it all.

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