Is ethical non-monogamy just cheating with better PR? And if your partner satisfies you, why the hell would you want to fuck anyone else?
These are just some of the assumptions people love throwing around about ethical non-monogamy (ENM), and Jess and Lawrence have heard plenty of them.
In this episode of Swapping Secrets, we’re back down in the dungeon at Our Secret Spot to tackle some of the biggest misconceptions about open relationships, swinging and what being non-monogamous actually involves.
Does jealousy mean you’re doing it wrong? Can you get upset about who your partner sleeps with? Should you share every dirty detail after a night out? And why do people assume that eventually you’ll need to settle down and have a “proper relationship”?
Jess and Lawrence share their own experiences, including some awkward encounters, uncomfortable conversations and the things they’ve learnt about jealousy, boundaries and communication over the years.
They also get into the stereotypes about sexual health, the expectation that non-monogamous people are constantly thinking about sex, and whether being ENM actually makes someone better at relationships.
As usual, there’s plenty of inappropriate banter along the way.
Got an assumption about ENM that makes your eyes roll? Let us know. There’s every chance we’ll end up doing a Part 2.
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