Debauchery Education Series: Newbies and Navigating the Lifestyle
Sunday 5th July

A Debauchery Education Experience at Our Secret Spot 

Everyone starts somewhere.
The difference between a good first experience and a confusing one is education. 

This session is designed for those who are new to the lifestyle, newly curious, or attending Our Secret Spot for the first time, and want to understand how lifestyle spaces actually work, both in person and online. 

At Debauchery, we believe exploration should feel informed, intentional, and empowering, not rushed, awkward, or overwhelming. This class exists to give you the tools, language, and confidence to move through lifestyle spaces with ease. 

 

What We’ll Cover 

Singles & Couples Dynamics 

• Exploring the lifestyle as a couple, including communication, jealousy, differing comfort levels, and reconnecting during and after events 

• Experiences as a single in lifestyle spaces, including confidence, consent, boundaries, and respectful engagement 

Understanding the Lifestyle & Spaces 

• What “the lifestyle” really looks like inside clubs like Our Secret Spot 

• How play-based environments operate, socially and energetically 

Social Navigation & Connection 

• Meeting people naturally, without pressure, awkwardness, or expectation 

• Reading the room, understanding signals, and managing attention respectfully 

• Etiquette, expectations, and unspoken norms that help nights flow smoothly 

Consent, Boundaries & Communication 

• Consent culture, boundaries, and communication in real-world settings 

• Navigating group play, including how it begins, how to opt in or out, and how to move at your own pace 

Emotional Experience & Confidence 

• Navigating nerves, curiosity, excitement, and first-time jitters 

• Attending lifestyle events with confidence, including arrival expectations, pacing your night, navigating spaces, and knowing when to engage or simply observe 

Online Tools & Visibility 

• Online tools and platforms, including how people connect and set expectations before events 

• Using social media and lifestyle platforms thoughtfully and safely 

Health, Hygiene & Responsibility 

• Sexual health, hygiene, and shared responsibility, including testing, STI awareness, disclosure, and personal cleanliness in shared spaces 

Common Pitfalls 

• Common newbie mistakes, both online and in-person, and how to avoid them with grace 

 

What This Session Is Designed To Support 

• Feeling empowered and informed in your choices 

• Exploring desire in ways that feel liberating, not pressured 

• Building confidence to engage, observe, or pause as needed 

• Developing language that supports clear, respectful communication 

• Creating experiences that feel exciting, safe, and aligned 

• Trusting yourself to navigate lifestyle spaces on your own terms 

 

Who This Session Is For 

This experience is ideal for: 

• Singles exploring the lifestyle for the first time 

• Couples opening up together or attending their first event 

• Groups or friends attending with shared curiosity 

• Those who are new or newly curious and want clarity before diving in 

• Anyone returning after time away and wanting a grounded, confident re-entry 

Whether you arrive solo or together, curious or cautious, this session offers a calm, informed entry point into the lifestyle, guided by experienced educators who understand both the psychology and the lived reality of these spaces. 

At Our Secret Spot, consent is culture.
At Debauchery, education is part of the experience. 

Come curious.
Leave informed.
Explore on your terms. 

 

Proudly Supported By 

• RedHotPie www.redhotpie.com.au 

• Flirt Adult Store www.flirtadultstore.com.au 

• Stigma Health www.stigmahealth.com
   

 

Please note:

• This is an educational class only.
• All genders, bodies, and orientations are welcome.
• Spaces are intentionally limited to keep the session focused, interactive, and engaging. 

 

Why Learn With Debauchery? 

Debauchery Events is founded and led by Mistress Anastasia and Ash, also known as The Kink Carpenter, two respected figures within the lifestyle, kink, and adult industries. 

With over a decade of lived and professional experience inside the swingers and BDSM communities, and more than ten years working within the adult industry, we bring real-world insight, practical knowledge, and grounded perspective to every class we deliver. 

Mistress Anastasia is an award-winning Professional Dominatrix recognised for her refined approach to power exchange, consent culture, and psychological dynamics. Ash, The Kink Carpenter, combines hands-on technical expertise in kink tools, furniture, and immersive play spaces with a deep understanding of how environment shapes connection and experience. 

Together, we have produced award-winning events that blend education, entertainment, and immersive connection. 

Debauchery is not about shock value, it is about intentional exploration, and growth.