Red Flags We Ignore Because We’re Horny
In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence unpack one of the most relatable (and chaotic) parts of modern relationships — red flags in dating and why we ignore them when attraction takes over. We’ve all been there… The red flags are obvious, but the chemistry is too strong to walk away. From cocky […]
Our Secret Spot Inside Sydney venues wild orgy room
BOOK NOW BOOK NOW Our Secret Spot: Inside Sydney venue’s wild orgy’room Back to all Seen IN Our Secret Spot – Inside Sydney venues wild orgy room Each weekend, adventurous adults clamour to get a spot inside this dimly lit room filled with double beds and mirrors. Have you ever wondered what the inside of […]
Dungeon Anal, Orgy Showers and Schoolgirl Chaos | Wild Swingers Club Stories
🔥 Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! In this exclusive, sneak-peek clip from our new segment, Raunchy Recaps, Jess and Lawrence share some of the wildest swingers club stories from inside Our Secret Spot. From dungeon encounters and orgy room chaos to hilarious behind-the-scenes moments, these real lifestyle stories […]
What Happens at a Women-Only Sex Party? (w/ Genevieve LeJeune)
In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence sit down with Genevieve LeJeune, founder of Skirt Club — the world’s largest women-only community for bisexual and bi-curious women. With over 27,000 members worldwide, Skirt Club has created a safe, empowering environment where women can explore sexuality, identity, and desire without pressure or judgement. Visit […]
Did Swinging Ruin Our Relationship?
In Part 2 of this deep-dive episode, Jess and Lawrence answer real questions from the OSS community about boundaries, consent, rule-breaking, and what really happens when things shift mid-play. We unpack: • What to do when another couple changes the rules during sex• How to handle boundaries being crossed in non-monogamy• Tips for anal and […]
Did Our Sexual Desires Mess Us Up?
What happens when curiosity turns into lived experience — and desire reshapes your identity, relationships, and sense of self? In Part 1 of this raw and reflective episode, Jess and Lawrence unpack how sexual desire can both liberate and destabilise. From early curiosity and boundary-blurring moments to the emotional hangovers no one prepares you for, […]
The New Midlife Sexual Renaissance – Why Sex Gets Better With Age w/ Susan Bratton (BetterLover)
Midlife used to be framed as the beginning of the sexual slow-down. Less desire. Less energy. Less spark. But what if that story is completely wrong? In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are joined by globally renowned intimacy expert Susan Bratton to unpack what she calls The New Midlife Sexual Renaissance — […]
Marie Claire – ‘Do You Swing?’
Back to all Seen IN By day, Jess Cattelly is a busy 32-year-old mum who loves to cook and travel the world with her partner. By night, she runs Australia’s most awarded female-focused Adult Play Parties. On their third date, Jess Cattelly and Lawrence Jay went to Ikea to see what kind of furniture might […]
Sydney Morning Herald – The Good Weekend – ‘From Dance Floor to Orgy Room’
Back to all Seen IN In this episode we talk to Jess Cattelly, the co-founder of Sydney swingers club Our Secret Spot. The 32-year-old got into swinging – also known as The Lifestyle – when she was just 20, and her Parramatta Road venue has since become an example of the way in which the […]
NO FILTER with KATE LANGEBROEK – ‘Jess Cattelly Turned a 3rd Date into a Swingers Empire’
Back to all Seen IN Today, we’re stepping into a world most of us have only ever heard whispers about: the world of swingers clubs. When she was just twenty, Jess Cattelly went on a third date that would change her life. Her date, a man named Lawrence, suggested they open a swingers club together—and […]