Newbie Night
Time: 8 pm to 1 am
Dress Code: Dress to impress. Think cocktail attire.
Event Type: Newbie-friendly adult social club play party, with an intro talk and tour
Who’s It For: Couples, throuples, and singles who are curious, brand-new, or taking their first step into the lifestyle
The Vibe
Newbie Night is your warm, welcoming entry point to Our Secret Spot, built for first-timers who want a little more context, a little more comfort, and a whole lot more confidence.
Expect an intimate crowd, a friendly buzz, and music that sits perfectly in the background, enough energy to feel exciting, but never so loud or hectic that you cannot chat and connect. It is the kind of night where you can arrive a touch nervous, then ten minutes later you are holding a drink, laughing with someone new, and thinking, “Oh… this is actually really easy.”
You can keep it purely social, take a slow lap and soak up the atmosphere, or gently explore at your own pace if the mood strikes. Some guests love the voyeuristic thrill of watching the room come to life; others want to flirt, connect, and see where the chemistry lands. Either way, the vibe is relaxed, playful, and welcoming, with plenty of space to breathe and plenty of time to settle in.
Come early, say hi, and let the night unfold naturally.
Important Info
Talk and Tour: Doors open at 8 pm; our introductory talk begins at 9 pm, followed by a guided tour to help you get your bearings and feel confident moving through the venue.
No pressure, ever: You are always in charge of your night. You can simply socialise, take it slow, enjoy the atmosphere, or explore further if you feel like it.
Tickets: We strongly recommend booking in advance to avoid disappointment. Door sales are rarely available.
BYO + snacks: BYO your favourite drinks, we will provide delicious hot snacks throughout the night.
New to Our Secret Spot: You do not have to attend Newbie Night first. You are welcome at any event you are interested in, and our team can show you through the venue on the night.
Applications: Single men, MM couples, single non-binary people, and throuples must apply to purchase tickets.
Single men: This event allows a maximum of 5 wonderful, carefully chosen, pre-approved single males to attend.
Online Member Perks
OSS Online members get early access to tickets, special member-only perks, and first dibs on select events and upgrades. Not a member yet? JOIN HERE
Dress Code
Dress to impress. Think polished, elevated, and intentional; it sets the tone and the confidence level instantly—full details via DRESS CODE.